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Pellissippi State graduate and advocate beat the
odds
Tyra Williams sidestepped statistical data on teen pregnancies
dooming her to failure and became an advocate instead.
Recipient of the Outstanding Student Honor, African-American Excellence
Award, Williams graduated from Pellissippi State on Friday, with
honors. Her diligence and hard work also have landed her a $16,000
scholarship to Maryville College, where she will pursue a bachelor’s
degree in business.
“Eventually, I would even like to earn my doctorate,”
said Williams, who describes herself as an “education junkie.”
As an award-winning, motivated student with nearly a 4.0, Williams
is a success. But she wasn’t supposed to be.
You see, Williams became pregnant at age 13.
According to the National Campaign to Prevent Pregnancy, only
one-third of teenage mothers graduate from high school. Of those
who do graduate, only 1.5 percent will receive a college degree
by age 30.
Despite the statistics, Williams used her situation to inspire
others by becoming a spokesperson on preventing teen pregnancy.
She appeared on talk shows and in magazines and newspapers.
At the same time, she maintained excellent grades at her high
school in Maryland and worked to support her young daughter.
By senior year she was earning honor roll certificates in every
class.
“Having a child as an ill-prepared mother did not stop me
from wanting a full college life to provide the best opportunities
to support my child,” said Williams.
Her diligence earned her a full scholarship to any Maryland school,
but she chose a college in Virginia.
“I felt both blessed and honored to be accepted there,”
says Williams, “but the awesome part was that as part of
a program for young mothers, I would be allowed to live on campus
with my daughter.”
Unfortunately, that college did not pan out.
“Program rules and regulations prevented family, including
my daughter’s father, from visiting,” said Williams.
“I felt that was unfair to my daughter, and I didn’t
want to hinder their relationship.”
Her alternate plan was to remain in Maryland for college, which
she did. At that time, 1997, she was pregnant with her second
child, a son. She worked hard, but the community college she attended
would not recognize her scholarship.
She again attempted college at a different school, but she said,
“it was a recipe for disaster. Because of the scholarship
I had to take a full-time class load, and I took classes above
my ability.”
She did not return to school after that semester.
In 1998, a decade after her daughter’s birth, Williams married
and landed in Memphis to be closer to her husband’s family.
Later, they moved to Knoxville for her husband’s job. She
worked, raised her children and began a career in real estate
during that time.
Williams was also busy collecting the appropriate documents to
again attend college.
The year 2003 marked her return, and Pellissippi State was her
choice.
During her time here at the College, she has continued to maintain
a heavy work schedule, earning her Graduate Realtor Institute
designation and maintaining a clientele. At times, she also has
worked 50+ hours a week at Open Arms Care, a nonprofit organization
that provides care for adults and children with mental retardation
and developmental disabilities, as an assistant program director.
Williams has been an active member of Phi Theta Kappa, and the
Active Black Students Association and a member of Alpha Beta Gamma,
a business honor society.
The three-year experience at the College was loaded with accomplishments,
but it has not been without struggles as well.
A number of close family members died. Another attempted suicide,
and yet another underwent emergency surgery. Marriage troubles
brewed, too, and even now, one family member battles cancer.
“But I’m still standing,” says Williams.
“She is an awesome, solid student with an amazing record,”
said Gayle Wood, assistant to the director of Admissions and Records
for student retention. “Her strong sense of determination
and powerful presence will lead her to a fantastic future.”
“Tyra is the type of student teachers dream of having,”
said Lisa Bogaty, associate professor in Business and Computer
Technology.
Although she has already begun her real estate career, Williams
is also working toward owning her own business.
“I would like to start a program or school to help teen
mothers complete their high school education while also earning
college credit,” said Williams, who herself attended Laurence
G. Paquin School for Expectant Mothers in Baltimore.
She also would like to exercise her real estate experience by
helping others become homeowners.
“What matters is not just that life’s lemons can be
turned to lemonade, but what you choose to do with the profits
from the lemonade.
“I want to be a blessing to others,” said Williams.
Williams, who turned 31 last month, has just missed being among
the 1.5 percent of teen mothers who complete college by age 30.
But she still represents a victory.
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